Exploring the Intersection of Ambition, Meaning, and Purpose

Welcome to John's collection of articles and essays. Here you'll find thoughtful explorations on aligning success with significance, finding purpose in achievement, and wanting well.

Maslow Moved On and So Should We
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Maslow Moved On and So Should We

Towards the end of Maslow’s life he shifted, emphasizing a transition from self-actualization to self-transcendence in order to be more fully human. John Carbrey explores why our next evolution is to move from “fulfilling self” to “offering self.”

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Wanting from Wholeness
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Wanting from Wholeness

The article, part of a "wanting well" series, uses gardening as a metaphor to explore personal wholeness through emotional self-exploration. It highlights Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, which helps integrate different aspects of the psyche to achieve emotional wholeness by addressing past wounds and cultivating inner qualities. The piece connects emotional health with emotional intelligence (EQ) and emphasizes that the journey towards wholeness is gradual and non-linear. It encourages readers to engage in therapy, mindfulness, and community support to enhance their emotional well-being.

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Wanting from Wounds

Wanting from Wounds

In this article, I explore the second step of the journey towards self-leadership discussing the significance of wanting from wounds. I reflect on the multitude of losses that have shaped my life and examine how these wounds influence behavior and relationships. Healing from these wounds involves completing unfinished emotional business and seeking support from our communities.

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